What does responsibility mean? Most of us want to be seen as responsible, and we like others to be responsible towards us but I notice that we rarely discuss or even define what this idea of responsibility might be all about.What does it mean in a given context, or is it beyond context? What is my responsibility, and what is not my responsibility? Who decided that it is my responsibility? I have realised that this absence - of understanding, of definitions - leads to a lot of ill effects: abuse, ill health, anxiety, depression and more. I believe that instead of saying “I am responsible”, it might be better to say “I am responsible for”. It makes a lot of difference when we become specific. Further, even when I say “I am responsible for” something, I have learned to ask myself if that is really true, and what might it mean if it were true. For example, it was believed for generations that cooking for the family is a woman’s responsibility. It is only now that we have started to questio...